Helping a loved one who is depressed can be very difficult. Sometimes caregivers feel helpless and unsure of what to say or do. Fear can cause helpers to be overbearing, hovering and treat the depressed person like a child. This is not particularly helpful for either the depressed person or the helper.

Here are some principles to keep in mind when someone you love is depressed.

Question

Dear Dr Duffy,

i was hoping if you would be able to advise me about a friend that i have who seems to be lying about things. i believe that he has a mental problem and that i believe that he does not realise what he is saying. i have known him for 3 years, and he has lied with alot of confidence for example lying about countries that he has visited, when he obvious has not, jobs he has had, etc. i just want to be sure that if whether this is true or not. should i ask him further questions about the lies that he has told me, without me mentioning to him that i know he is lying. and if i do this i hope it does not make his mental state worse. what should i do? i look forward to hear from you.

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