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Should Have, Would Have, Could Have; Thoughts That Cause Emotional Distress

8:30 pm Coping

Do you suffer from regrets, or the “shouda’s”?  Do you look back on the choices you made in life and beat yourself up?  Regrets are a problem for many of us,  especially when we are trying to change  something about ourselves.  Our thoughts often go, “If I must change  that means I have been doing it all wrong, all along. Yuk!

Regrets can cause a lot of heartache and emotional distress making us vulnerable to crises.

I ran across what I think is a very article about regrets, that I wanted to share with you. Decreasing regrets will reduce your stress and expand your coping skills!

 Check it out.

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/01/01/health/research/01mind.html?ex=1356843600&en=c50a5096c0bad48b&ei=5124&partner=permalink&exprod=permalink

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